“I’m maybe not into Asian guys.” I could attribute this estimate to several friends and acquaintances, as well as the funny thing is, most of them were Asian.

Which begs the relevant concern: why? I sometimes ask that aloud. Frequently the response will be a non-answer: silence, a subject change or “ I don’t just know, I’m not into them.”

I’m maybe not saying that Asians alone are guilty of rejecting Asian men. If anything, we’re likelier than many other teams to give them an opportunity. Nor should we feel obligated to constrain our choices to men that are asian. But too often, Asians are because responsible as anyone in refusing to see men that are asian sexual partners. And so they don’t concern why.

Possibly it’s unjust of me personally to assume everything you suggest when you say you’re maybe not into Asian males. But having been fed stereotypes about Asian guys time after time, it’s not hard to put two and two together. Exactly What might just seem like a harmless non-preference for folks of your battle may really and truly just function as results of internalized self-racism.

Apparently as Asians, we are, being a collective, little, effeminate and meek. ادامه مطلب …